Go pro with your LIFE

What we get when we turn pro is we find our power. We find our will and our voice and we find our self-respect. We become who we always were but had, until then, been afraid to embrace and live out.

~ Steven Pressfield, Turning Pro

I have a challenge for you:

Start handling your life like a professional.

I’m not suggesting you start wearing a suit to dinner or demanding payment for walking your dog (though these might be cool experiments to run to screw productively with your life’s status quo – who knows). I mean take on the mindset of a pro in all areas of your life. Think about it – what if you

  • approached staying in great shape as though it were your job, how would that change how you do it?
  • thought of yourself as a professional chef, how would that affect how you cook?
  • treated your relationships like you were a thought leader in that field, what would you do differently?

What going pro with your life means

Go PRO with your life: "I'm not bossy; I'm the boss." ~ Beyonce Knowles

Going pro means committing. You take risks, hustle, and care about what you do. It means you make it matter, so what you do is rewarding, fair, enriching. When you go pro, you value your time and actions, and you’re clear about what outcomes you expect. You take pride in your efforts and set consistent goals. Going pro means you don’t pass the blame, sit and bitch, quit, or not show up. You learn to say no, so you can say HELL YES to the life YOU want.

What going pro with your life looks like

Staying in shape right now might look like the occasional gym visit and a lapsed yoga studio membership. If you approached it like a pro, you’d get clear on your goals, budget your time, finances, and attention (what you’ll do, how much it’ll cost, and how much of your life you’re willing to dedicate to it), and you’d quit treating it like something you can skip whenever you want. You’d create a strategy for how to get where you want to be. If you’re not getting there, you change strategies until you do.

If you thought of how you feed yourself like a pro, you’d learn great cooking habits, plan ahead, buy quality produce, and stay creative so your food stays delicious, satisfying, and healthy. You’d require anyone involved in your kitchen to respect your standards. You’d make the hard choices to create good food even when you’re tired or lazy or when no one else might see you eating a bag of cookies for dinner. And when you occasionally eat a bag of cookies for dinner, you’d own it, brush the crumbs off your shirt, and get back to doing better.

What would you as a relationship pro look like? Your focus would shift to the success, health and viability of your connection with others. Shed any dynamic you wouldn’t advise someone else to keep. Choose what roles you’re willing to fill and get better at them. Be a problem-solving master. Invest in the value of each committed relationship. Expect a rich return on your investments (and divest your assets if you’re not getting what you need). Stop being ignored or dismissed because you’re the boss and you don’t have time for that shit.

Why going pro matters

Go PRO with your life: Believe in yourself. Trust yourself. Love yourself. Invest in yourself.

It’s easy to become complacent in our own lives. We drift off course and sometimes it takes a major life event before we wake up and realize how far we are from where we want to be. What keeps us from immediately taking the helm of our own lives? For many, we just don’t know our value. Who cares, right? This is fine. I’m ok. It could be worse.

It could also be a FUCK of a lot better.

Going pro works

I’ve worked with many people over the years in my yoga teacher training who’ve broken me open with how powerful they are. When they start they’re doing ‘fine’, maybe a bit lost or struggling, usually they’ve lost sight of what they want for themselves. Often they’re wives, moms, daughters, fathers – people who’ve spent so much of their time taking care of others they’ve learned to put themselves last over and over until it feels “normal” or “right”. They’ve placed their own goals and desires to the back of the line and hardly feel anyone would care if they pursued them.

But when they get in this training and finally devote time to their passions, when they’re heard, asked, encouraged, and given tools, they SHOW UP LIKE A PRO. The transformation is inspiring. They stop being amateurs in their own lives and start committing to themselves. These people take risks, get focused, hustle – and start to care again about their own dreams. They prioritize themselves again, invest in themselves, and they see big returns.

My challenge to you is really this: No more blaming others, no more bitching about what was lost, no more letting another day go by while you’re too busy, distracted, or making everyone else’s dreams and goals matter more than your own. Go pro in your own life and find your power, your will, your voice, your self-respect. Find yourself again.

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